Still Waiting

Saturday, January 31, 2009

Parents.

sometimes i wonder should we treat them well at all. no matter what, they've worked so hard to raise us up.

but they are damn suckers at communicating.

read this: http://zenhabits.net/2009/01/on-compassion-towards-our-children/

so its a choice whether i wanna be nice to my parents.

yes i've been rebellious, been naughty, been rude and impolite, etc etc. but i've felt sorry for it.

sometimes i make up by behaving well, and then they cannot believe i'm actually behaving. therefore comments such as "wa why so guai today, never go out?" etc etc.

CANNOT STAND IT.

so when you go out the next day, they start commenting, "going out AGAIN???"

take a look at their understanding skills.

can you tahan this shit?

conclusion: don't need to be nice to them. be sarcastic, as much as we can, since we're still young and we have the space to make mistakes. be nice to them only when you grow up and they need you to be there.

think that i've being very ridiculous and unfilial? take this scenario that happened less than an hour ago:

i was home the whole day, since the next few weekends i'll be out all the time and i need the rest. i only went to gym from 630-8 where no one was at home cos parents went out to sing karaoke. after i was back from gym, i did my sets and was still perspiring. and so i sat down in front of the laptop till now, blogging about this irritating scene between me and my dad. so i was sitting here about 1 hour ago, happily surfing net and mum came home first. dad was parking bike downstairs. mum, surprised:"eh, never go out ah?" me:"no dun have" then dad came back, walked pass the window, saw me using comp, asked:"wah never go out ah? so good. you went jogging huh? then go bathe lah! you are always like that, never go bathe, so dirty... *blah x infinity* to shut him up, i turned around and said: "come in then scold."

see that? you try to behave, they find other faults with you. to put this across crudely, they are crazy fault finders. they can never be contended and see the good side of you, cos the bad side is always overwhelming.

seriously, don't you guys agree?

what parents want us to do:
0800-0900 wash up, get dressed, have breakfast and get ready for school. no school, get ready for market or household chores.
0900-1200 cook lunch (if not in school)
1200-0300 do your schoolwork. computer not allowed.
0300-0315 have a tiny short break, maybe watch huang jing nian hua with your mum
0315-0600 do housework, and prepare dinner.
0600-0700 cook dinner.
0700-0900 watch tv and eat dinner
0900-0930 bathe. take any longer than 30 mins, they'll break down your toilet door. if u're shitting, make sure you're dressed.
0930-1000 ok allowance, go play your laptop which takes 10 mins to start up, 5mins to connect,10mins to do whatever you want online, and 5more mins to shut down.
1001- make sure you're tucked neatly under your blankets.

and the cycle REPEATS.if there's school, be back by 7pm to have dinner.

i'm sure if our routine is like this, like SERIOUSLY don't mind this kinda life, your parents will still find something to scold you. like how you cannot walk properly, or didnt hold the cup properly, something along these lines. do you think they deserve what i've stated in my conclusion?

you have no choice but to agree.

cos i am damn right.

-when are you coming back? ;